Re: Thanks for the welcome and responses
My wife has shot 12s and 20s before. She knows kick will be less with a heavier gun. But she has a physical strength and gripping prob holding onto the forearm. (Can't twist her left arm palm up to grip the forearm). So we need the lighter weapon, regardless of the added recoil issue.
I'm a reloader, (rifle, pistol & 12 & 20 shotgun) so loading lighter shot loads would not be an issue, but I wanted a 20 she could handle gun wt wise, maybe with 20 ga slugs and for sure with 3 or 4 buck.
Anyway, the 12 ga set still appeals due to price, but I'm gonna have to bite the bullet (so to speak) and buy an HD short bbl 20 and add a VR choked bbl at whatever length I can get. The 12 set has a 28", but the longest I see for the 20 seems to be 24"
THX again
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