The Glock lowers are relatively new design in terms of how long the "Colt" style, or even the Olympic Arms style of 9mm uppers are concerned.
I have zero experience with the glock style.
But for the Colt style, here are some things that will help you.
A ramped bolt reduces stress on the hammer when the bolt cycles. And especially don't use a step faced hammer.
A set of Anti rotational pins may also help prevent damage to the lower receiver fire control pin holes because it's well documented that the extra stress may
If you use a lot of imported 9mm ammo, an extra power hammer spring may help in reliability.
I'm not sure what you're talking about the length of the buffer and adding to them. All the 9mm buffers I've ever used have been Car length, but heavier due to the internal weights.