Re: Less that Lethal shotgun shell for the first round.
Nick, to start I have to commend you and your wife for even having this discussion. Too many people don't have a plan, or if they have one they don't share it with others in the household.
The "first round LTL" issue is something that is completely a personal choice. The only thing I, or anyone else on here, can do is give you our personal opinions and reasoning. My own thoughts on the matter is a huge NO. If I'm woken up in the middle of the night by an intruder their personal safety and well-being are the least of my problems. MY family comes first......the intruders health ranks somewhere behind my microwave on the importance scale. That said, I'm also not going to swing around a corner with guns blazing. I keep weapon mounted lights on my HD guns for a good reason......much like your sneaking teenagers, I don't want to risk shooting at a dark figure that turns out to be my 12yo up for a midnight snack. ID the threat and then act accordingly........If it is simply a 15 year old kid from down the street looking to score an xBox or a DVD player they will probably drop to the floor and be laying in a puddle of their own urine when the Police show up (your wife WAS calling 911, right?). You also have to accept the fact that it may NOT be the 15yo kid.......you may find your light shining on the 4-time ex-con who saw your wife at the grocery store and decided to follow and see where she lived.......maybe decided she was awful pretty and the house looked awful nice. THAT guy is pretty determined to not go back to prison again and all the time he's had on the weights in the yard have made him pretty big. Do you want to risk a room-width distance shot with a LTL that may have little to no effect on him? How fast do you think he could close the distance between the two of you following a LTL shot that has caused no damage other than pain? How fast can you cycle your 500? Then recycle it because you short-stroked it because of panic? Think he's on you yet?
I want my first shot to either put the badguy flat on his butt from the start or I want him bleeding out heavily while he's fighting me for my shotgun......who cares if he's got a bruise.....
There was one statement you made though that I'm going to share a story about that I hope changes your and your wifes outlook a bit.....
Nick Burkhardt said:
Or simply confronting the intruder with a shotgun in hand would cause him to flee and not return. We mostly have scavengers instead of predators around here looking for a quick and easy unearned buck without confrontation.
I live in a small town in Southern Illinois. Violent crime is, for the most part, non-existant. We do however have a fair number of burglaries of empty homes and just last month had a burglar get surprised by a homeowner who was actually at home asleep. Please be very aware that there are also predators that live amongst those looking for an easy score. A few years back, in a neighboring town, one of those predators decided that the easiest score he could think of was an empty Church. Guy had a long rap-sheet of mostly small stuff. This case has been CRUCIAL in the push for allowing Concealed Carry in Illinois. Because, you see, that Church wasn't empty......inside was the 69yo Church secretary and the 76yo woman who took care of the cleaning. This small time scavenger wasn't expecting a confrontation and "fight or flight" took over and his brain chose fight. He beat both women within an inch of their life. Thankfully, they both survived despite broken ribs, jaws, skull fractures and every other injury you can imagine coming about from a 30-something ex-con beating and stomping on two little old ladies. I've had the pleasure of meeting Mary Sheperd over the past few years......she is a HUGE advocate for CCW and protecting your home.
Here is a picture that was taken at the hospital following her attack. The image isn't pretty but Mary wants as many people as possible to see it.........Please, show this to your wife so she can begin to understand what happens when you have a "scavenger" who is confronted with a score that isn't as easy as first thought and the victim is unable or unwilling to use every means necessary to defend themselves.