tnxdshooter said:
Im pissed off that because i work just every now and then because it is all i can find that people think i can just help them with whatever they need help with at a moments notice. Then they get pissed when i wont help em. Im tired of cancelling my plans to help others when no ome helps me with anything. Then they want me to explain what my plans are to them so they can see.if they are important enough. If they werent my family i would have beaten em all into a coma by no iv had it. I dont have to justify myself to anyone and if i say i cant or dont want to help you dont push me or your liable to feel my wrath. I have a life and they cant get it through their thick skulls. Maybe if i beat it into their thick skulls then they will undestand.
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wow...it really makes me sad to see someone hate his own family so much.
my family asks me to do stuff at the last minute
all the time. i have no problem with that. i also turn them down at the same rate. and they understand. because i talk rationally to them. maybe if you talk to them about how "you feel they have been treating you",
instead of coming through with rage, they
might understand. i'm not saying i'm dr. phil, but i talk to my family all the time, it's called communication. if they get hostile then just walk away.
that would be the way to do it intellectually. at least you will know
you tried.
i only say all that because you have givin no back story to the situation.
also, they might ask be asking so much of you because they want you to be in contact with them more than you think. and because you don't have " a steady job" and they don't know your schedule so they ask...
know what i'm saying?